Ordinary 28

Ordinary 28
by Paul O'Reilly, SJ

"How hard it is for those who have riches to enter into the Kingdom of God!" There used to be a tradition in Ireland that at a christening the godparents would give the newly baptized infant a little silver christening cup. But when my mother was asked to be godmother to my cousin Catherine, she didn't have the money to get it immediately. But eventually it was bought. And then it had to be engraved. And then it had to be polished. And then I think if we are honest, it got a little bit forgotten about, gathering dust on a shelf. Then my family moved to another part of the country. And then Catherine's family moved to the other end of the country. So, in the end, what with life, the universe and everything, Catherine finally got to receive her little silver cup at her fifth birthday party. It was suitably presented to her all nicely wrapped up with flowery paper. And, being a very well brought-up young lady, Catherine was very pleased to get it and said "Thank You" very nicely. And the birthday party went on. After perhaps a couple of hours, Catherine's best friend picked up the silver cup and said how much she liked it. Catherine, without another thought, gave it to her. But Catherine's mother was shocked and scandalised. You don’t give away your christening cup ­ not ever! And certainly not after you’ve just spent five years waiting for it and the giver is still in the room! Immediately she intervened, took the cup back from Catherine’s best friend and returned it to its rightful owner. The result of course was two howling five-year olds. But Catherine’s mother was too busy apologizing to my mother: “I’m ever so sorry. Catherine doesn't yet understand the value of things.” "Ah yes,” said my mother, "but she does understand the value of people". All right, let me tell you another one. Once upon a time, when I was young, fit and good looking - OK, quite a long time ago - I cycled from Land's End to John O'Groats - from the South to the North of Great Britain - about 1000 miles. And one day, I met an American tourist who was doing the same. But he was having a lot of problems with his bike and he was making very slow progress. And he asked me for my help. His bike was beautiful - very expensive and brand new - made with the very latest lightweight alloy steel with 18 gears! (I had to count them three times to be sure.) And it had double brakes and lights that come on automatically. And when you rode it, it was as smooth as a Mercedes. (I’ve never actually been in a Mercedes, but I’m sure this is what it must feel like.) So I brought it back to him to tell them that there was nothing wrong with his bicycle - but if he wanted to swap it for mine, I would be quite happy with that. "Yes", he said, "it's fine now, but when you put the load on you can hardly get to move at all." So I asked: "Well, what it is the load?" He showed me - it weighed one hundred and forty two pounds! So I said, "No wonder you are not making progress, you are carrying far too much weight." And he said: "Well, I know it's a lot, but I really need it all." And so I had to say to him: "My friend, how much do you really want to get to get to where you're going?" He thought for a moment and said "I really want to get there." So I asked him: "Then what are you going to have to do with all this weight you are carrying?" At this a look of intense pain came across his face. And eventually he said: "I'm going to have to lose some of it, amn't I?" So together we divided all this stuff into two piles - one pile of the stuff that was helping him get to where he was going - and another of the stuff that was holding him back. It wasn't always easy to decide what to put in each pile. Sometimes we had to give an item the benefit of the doubt. But even so, I think you can guess which was the bigger pile. And then we had a big sale! I would like to be able to tell you that he gave the money to the poor (that is, ME!) but that didn't happen. Next day I agreed to cycle with him for the first hour. There were a lot of hills to start with and he went up them like he was in a Mercedes and I trailed behind. After an hour, he was past me and gone. I never saw him again. But he left me with a question that I try to ask myself about once a year. To list all my possessions and ask: "Which of these are really helping me to get to where I am going and which are just holding me back?" Because it is very hard for a rich man to get into the kingdom of heaven. And that is nothing to do with God not loving rich people - it's just the law of gravity. Let us stand and profess our Faith in God, who gives us the only True and ultimate wealth there is.

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