Questions that ask for your opinion are never easy to answer. At times being truthful without being hurtful are two polar opposites that refuse to be united. Many a true friend has licked their wounds after being truthful. A compliment rather than an critique can be what is sought by the questioner. So, if you tell the truth habitually, keep the engine running for a quick getaway. Few of us really want the truth. No deceptions, no defenses, no rationalizations. It’s because the price is high, it will cost your very security and few of us want to jettison our unquestioned beliefs and prejudices about ourselves and the world we live in. We are all children of Pilate, trying to answer our dilemma’s by compromise.

We are still being tried by truth, and our loyalty to Christ our King is shown by the outcome. How we behave when we are challenged with the truth is judgment on ourselves and often this is not easy. Doing the right thing will cost you, perhaps your job, even your life. It’s why we value our closest relationships, they are harbours of truth, where beneath even the wildest statements we may make of our spouse, there is no real accusation, because the bedrock is love. Living and acting in love is ultimately the key.

“all who are on the side of truth listen to my voice.” (Gospel)

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